Wired has published an article. The Link. It says that "Do Gooders are Unpopular Team Members". It says that they are unpopular because they raise the bar for everyone else, that is not the reason.
We dislike people who are unselfish because it demonstrates that we are selfish. There is a scene in Scarface where the criminal says that we (the good people) need him to scare us into being good. That is criminal thinking. We don't fear there being bad people in the world, we know there are, heck, we have been bad. What we fear is good people, that means that we can be better.
We fear gratitude because it may cause us to pay our debts. I am funny with debts, usually tell people the same thing. Firstly, if I give someone something or do something for them, I don't expect them to ever pay me back even if they say they will. My payback ratio is about 10%, 90% never pay me back. Secondly, if I do something for someone I usually ask that they do the same in the future if they see someone in the same situation. They have a term for this now, "Pay it forward".
Where we are as a society is determined by each of us individually, we are all participants. If we had a society of people who would jump on a hand grenade to save others then we won't be throwing any hand grenades. The article is about how we have to be selfish to be social. People who are selfish are more likely to be liked is it's message. If you wish to be selfish, you will use the article to justify being selfish.
Wednesday, August 25, 2010
I-Dosing, the real issue
To begin with, whenever the media puts out two alternatives, both are wrong. You are being led. There is a new thing out, it called I-Dosing. Basically, it is noise meant to have a effect similar to drugs. It is distributed over the internet.
Oklahoma has decided that this is dangerous and wants to warn parents about it. Both David Icke and Alex Jones have decided that this is another attempt by the government to control us and the internet. Others are saying that it doesn't work and is just silly. Everyone is missing the real issue. I don't care about I-dosing, it is irrelevant. The whole discussion is meant to be hypnotic suggestion.
Hypnosis is begun with a suggestion. It is the suggestion that another can make you believe things that are not true, that they have the power to hypnotise you. They do not. Hypnosis is self-delusion. I used to "hypnotise" people, I know how it works. You can read up on it. It is hyperfocus.
We are only consciously aware of a small amount of what is going on around us. Lets say 10%, for the sake of argument. I wrote a post recently about the gorilla in the room that nobody noticed. Same thing. If you are too focused, you miss other things. That is the essence of hypnosis. If you believe someone can hypnotise you then you are more susceptible to believing they did it.
Hypnosis works because we want to excuse ourselves for what we do and blame others. Our choices are our own. Noises will not make you think you are on drugs, you will convince yourself that it works because you want it to. Because most people wish to go along with others, they will convince themselves it works because their friends are all saying it works.
I am about to teach a young man self-hypnosis. I will explain that nobody can hypnotise you except yourself. I have to do it in this manner because I need to make sure that when he uses this concentration process he does not allow others to use it against him. It is meant to help him with a sleep disorder. The suggestion/induction will be reinforced with a post hypnotic suggestion that if he is unwilling nobody, including himself, can hypnotise him. I do not wish him left vulnerable.
The argument over I-Dosing is hypnotic induction. It won't work on everyone; but, the discussions will act as hypnotic induction on those who want it to be true. There was a movie called "The Ring", it was about a video and if you watched the video within X number of days you died. Mass media is an expert at using the power of suggestion and that is all it is, suggestion. It is nonsense. They provide the excuse and we take it.
What we need to watch for is the next shoe to drop. We will have a lengthy discussion about I-Dosing, some kid will kill himself and we will be outraged. The real trick is that we convince people that they can be manipulate via sound. The next trick is to say that some have placed subliminal sounds on the internet to program us. LOL. It is coming.
We are emotional beings having a material experience. We associate certain emotions with certain experiences, that does not mean that the experience causes the emotion. It is a choice of associations. As long as we remember that we make the choice, we are in control.
There is no war on for your mind, it is baloney. The war is on for you soul, for your willingly giving up your self will in exchange for being able to blame someone else for your bad behaviour. The purpose behind repentance is acceptance of responsibility.
The way the scumbag got to my ex-wife was repetition. 50 texts a day telling her how she was perfect. She wanted to hear that. Flattery, repetition and promises of cookies is how you control the masses. That is how the mass media works. The things you believe become the things you do. If you are looking for excuses, you will find them. The excuses always fall apart in the end no matter what you convince yourself of.
I-dosing will work on those who want it to work on them. The issue is not i-dosing, it is about taking responsibility for oneself. The garbage we have been selling people for the past 60 years is that if you see violence in the media, you are more likely to be violent. It is a lie. I can watch violent movies every minute and it will not make me be violent. Having said that, fill your minds with things of beauty and it will become a habit.
What we fill our minds with is our choice, we seek things out. If you spend all day killing people in a video game, it is because you wish to feel power. If you spend all day thinking of all the people who helped you, it will become your day. I became better when I began thinking of all the people who helped me. Gratitude is a great feeling; but, it requires that you recognize and appreciate what you have been given. We can look at how we all fall short or we can look at how far we have come. We are capable of growth.
Oklahoma has decided that this is dangerous and wants to warn parents about it. Both David Icke and Alex Jones have decided that this is another attempt by the government to control us and the internet. Others are saying that it doesn't work and is just silly. Everyone is missing the real issue. I don't care about I-dosing, it is irrelevant. The whole discussion is meant to be hypnotic suggestion.
Hypnosis is begun with a suggestion. It is the suggestion that another can make you believe things that are not true, that they have the power to hypnotise you. They do not. Hypnosis is self-delusion. I used to "hypnotise" people, I know how it works. You can read up on it. It is hyperfocus.
We are only consciously aware of a small amount of what is going on around us. Lets say 10%, for the sake of argument. I wrote a post recently about the gorilla in the room that nobody noticed. Same thing. If you are too focused, you miss other things. That is the essence of hypnosis. If you believe someone can hypnotise you then you are more susceptible to believing they did it.
Hypnosis works because we want to excuse ourselves for what we do and blame others. Our choices are our own. Noises will not make you think you are on drugs, you will convince yourself that it works because you want it to. Because most people wish to go along with others, they will convince themselves it works because their friends are all saying it works.
I am about to teach a young man self-hypnosis. I will explain that nobody can hypnotise you except yourself. I have to do it in this manner because I need to make sure that when he uses this concentration process he does not allow others to use it against him. It is meant to help him with a sleep disorder. The suggestion/induction will be reinforced with a post hypnotic suggestion that if he is unwilling nobody, including himself, can hypnotise him. I do not wish him left vulnerable.
The argument over I-Dosing is hypnotic induction. It won't work on everyone; but, the discussions will act as hypnotic induction on those who want it to be true. There was a movie called "The Ring", it was about a video and if you watched the video within X number of days you died. Mass media is an expert at using the power of suggestion and that is all it is, suggestion. It is nonsense. They provide the excuse and we take it.
What we need to watch for is the next shoe to drop. We will have a lengthy discussion about I-Dosing, some kid will kill himself and we will be outraged. The real trick is that we convince people that they can be manipulate via sound. The next trick is to say that some have placed subliminal sounds on the internet to program us. LOL. It is coming.
We are emotional beings having a material experience. We associate certain emotions with certain experiences, that does not mean that the experience causes the emotion. It is a choice of associations. As long as we remember that we make the choice, we are in control.
There is no war on for your mind, it is baloney. The war is on for you soul, for your willingly giving up your self will in exchange for being able to blame someone else for your bad behaviour. The purpose behind repentance is acceptance of responsibility.
The way the scumbag got to my ex-wife was repetition. 50 texts a day telling her how she was perfect. She wanted to hear that. Flattery, repetition and promises of cookies is how you control the masses. That is how the mass media works. The things you believe become the things you do. If you are looking for excuses, you will find them. The excuses always fall apart in the end no matter what you convince yourself of.
I-dosing will work on those who want it to work on them. The issue is not i-dosing, it is about taking responsibility for oneself. The garbage we have been selling people for the past 60 years is that if you see violence in the media, you are more likely to be violent. It is a lie. I can watch violent movies every minute and it will not make me be violent. Having said that, fill your minds with things of beauty and it will become a habit.
What we fill our minds with is our choice, we seek things out. If you spend all day killing people in a video game, it is because you wish to feel power. If you spend all day thinking of all the people who helped you, it will become your day. I became better when I began thinking of all the people who helped me. Gratitude is a great feeling; but, it requires that you recognize and appreciate what you have been given. We can look at how we all fall short or we can look at how far we have come. We are capable of growth.
Sick and Samson
Have a slight cold, been fighting it all week. I thought it was just my allergies; but, turned out to be a little more. Got me thinking about allergies. I am allergic to perfumes, not all but many. When I am around some my eyes get gooey and swell and I have a hard time breathing. Sometimes it kicks off my bronchitis.
Anyways, staying home was tough too. It was 105 degrees, just hot and miserable. LOL, just got an e-mail. It turns out that they sprayed my office building for bugs, I guess it was an allergy. I am allergic to certain chemicals, it also affected my stomach and made it queasy.
My stomach is my weak part, I lived with cluster headaches, I live with arthritis. I didn't take anything for the headaches. Mostly because back then they didn't have anything that worked. I don't take anything for the arthritis because it was too hard on my stomach. Everybody has a weakness.
For some reason it made me think of Samson of the bible. It is another one of those stories that leaves out something. Samson meets Delilah and falls in love with her after having his intended bride married off to his best man by her father. Delilah is paid silver in order to get her to discover the secret of his great strength. She asks him and he says he will be weak is tied up with fresh bow strings. He wakes up to discover that she has done so and he snaps them off. She asks again and he says he will be weak if tied with new ropes. He wakes up to discover that she has done so and snaps them off. She asks him again and he says he will be weak if his hair is woven, he wakes up to discover she has done so and he unweaves his hair. She asks again and he says the secret to his strength is his hair. While he sleeps she cuts it off and he is captured by the bad guys who poke his eyes out and make him a slave.
Now, here is my question. Why did he tell her? He could not have been so dumb that he didn't understand what she was trying to do. Did he like being tied up and think it was a game? I should point out something, Samson's strength was not because of his hair. That is a myth. Samson had taken a Nazerite oath to God. No alcohol and to not cut his hair. He would have lost his strength if he had wine, his strength was taken for breaking his oath.
The Greek tragedies were all morality tales. In general they would use the stories of people to explain a moral and to explain a flaw, the stories were meant to show the benefits and consequences of being one way or another. I believe God uses people and nations in the same way. Samson's strength was in his keeping his word to God. His weakness was what?
At the end of the story, Samson is tied up and on display in a Philistine temple. His hair had grown back; but, his strength had not returned. He prays to God for the strength to avenge the loss of his eyes. God gave him the strength, he pulls down the pillars and kills all inside and dies with them.
Now I shall give the key to most characters in the bible. They often are real world representations of the times they live in. Consider the prophets. One was made to marry a whore to show what God thought of Israel at the time. In the time of Samson, God was delivering Israel from the Philistines.
Israel was supposed to separate itself from those around them. Instead they took up trading with them and some even married them. Samson's intended wife was a Philistine. The parents married her off to his best man. Delilah is a Hebrew name and therefore we can assume she was Jewish and not Philistine.
His story begins to take on meaning. He (representing Israel) fell in love with other cultures and left the way of God. The family of the others rejected him and killed his family. He returned to his own culture (Delilah) and she sold him out for money. He was then captured by the enemy and enslaved and blinded. In the end he returned to God and killed his enemy. His story was meant to tell the Jews of those days to beware of taking on foreign ways and what?
Delilah means "One who uprooted or weakened or impoverished". Interesting. Samson was the last of the Judges. He was the leader of Israel. Delilah basically sold out her own people, she sold out her own countryman and lover for money. One may ask why she was with him in the first place. He was in charge, she didn't love him, she wanted what he had to offer. Power is an aphrodisiac to many.
Did Samson know that she didn't love him, probably. He didn't trust her and did not tell her the truth about his strength the first three times. It is possible that she asked him before or just after having sex. It does not say that Samson married Delilah, she was a booty call.
"Things fall apart, the center will not hold". Nations are destroyed from within. When your own people start selling out your country for personal gain, everybody loses. One must expect to have others attempt to take over your country, to destroy your self will and determination. They can rarely do that without help from within.
The United States is not being destroyed by illegal aliens, Iraq, Russia or China. We sold ourselves out. We indebted ourselves to China, they did not force us to buy from them. Our politicians sold us out to international banking and globalization. We turned on each other and took loans with no intention of paying them back, we have become a nation of corruption. We no longer keep our promises, we attempt to have others meet them for us.
If you live in a nation where everyone is out for themselves, it is simply a matter of time before you are destroyed. Strength is in sharing, in our relationship with one another as brethren, as being Americans. Our identification with each other as being in the same boat.
I might be a little under the weather; but, I hope some of my readers found this interesting. I did not know what I was going to write, I had asked a couple of people for some ideas. Then, I just started writing. After all the research and writing about the pension stuff I did not want to write anything really heavy, my research side needed a break.
It used to be that everyone who was a scholar knew the bible. It was a common language because of it's stories. They were so well known that they could be used to illustrate a point. One does not have to be Christian or Jewish to enjoy reading the bible. It is still a book and one that has been fairly popular over the years. It is very readable. I highly recommend to everyone to read it at least once all the way through.
When we read any book we should read it with an attempt to understand more than just the story. Every writer has a purpose beyond reciting what occurred. My youngest daughter writes very well, she is very good at saying something in such a way that other people can relate to the emotion she is attempting to bring out in the writer. That is not my strength, I believe I am good at making things accessible, taking terms of art and intricate thoughts and explaining them to non-experts.
This blog is clearly not for everyone. Most people could care less about the things I discuss. Quantum physics, public pensions, the bible and relationships. Having said that, I do try and make these subjects as amusing as I can. I thank my readers for being there. It gives me a reason to keep writing and I like writing. Thank you.
Anyways, staying home was tough too. It was 105 degrees, just hot and miserable. LOL, just got an e-mail. It turns out that they sprayed my office building for bugs, I guess it was an allergy. I am allergic to certain chemicals, it also affected my stomach and made it queasy.
My stomach is my weak part, I lived with cluster headaches, I live with arthritis. I didn't take anything for the headaches. Mostly because back then they didn't have anything that worked. I don't take anything for the arthritis because it was too hard on my stomach. Everybody has a weakness.
For some reason it made me think of Samson of the bible. It is another one of those stories that leaves out something. Samson meets Delilah and falls in love with her after having his intended bride married off to his best man by her father. Delilah is paid silver in order to get her to discover the secret of his great strength. She asks him and he says he will be weak is tied up with fresh bow strings. He wakes up to discover that she has done so and he snaps them off. She asks again and he says he will be weak if tied with new ropes. He wakes up to discover that she has done so and snaps them off. She asks him again and he says he will be weak if his hair is woven, he wakes up to discover she has done so and he unweaves his hair. She asks again and he says the secret to his strength is his hair. While he sleeps she cuts it off and he is captured by the bad guys who poke his eyes out and make him a slave.
Now, here is my question. Why did he tell her? He could not have been so dumb that he didn't understand what she was trying to do. Did he like being tied up and think it was a game? I should point out something, Samson's strength was not because of his hair. That is a myth. Samson had taken a Nazerite oath to God. No alcohol and to not cut his hair. He would have lost his strength if he had wine, his strength was taken for breaking his oath.
The Greek tragedies were all morality tales. In general they would use the stories of people to explain a moral and to explain a flaw, the stories were meant to show the benefits and consequences of being one way or another. I believe God uses people and nations in the same way. Samson's strength was in his keeping his word to God. His weakness was what?
At the end of the story, Samson is tied up and on display in a Philistine temple. His hair had grown back; but, his strength had not returned. He prays to God for the strength to avenge the loss of his eyes. God gave him the strength, he pulls down the pillars and kills all inside and dies with them.
Now I shall give the key to most characters in the bible. They often are real world representations of the times they live in. Consider the prophets. One was made to marry a whore to show what God thought of Israel at the time. In the time of Samson, God was delivering Israel from the Philistines.
Israel was supposed to separate itself from those around them. Instead they took up trading with them and some even married them. Samson's intended wife was a Philistine. The parents married her off to his best man. Delilah is a Hebrew name and therefore we can assume she was Jewish and not Philistine.
His story begins to take on meaning. He (representing Israel) fell in love with other cultures and left the way of God. The family of the others rejected him and killed his family. He returned to his own culture (Delilah) and she sold him out for money. He was then captured by the enemy and enslaved and blinded. In the end he returned to God and killed his enemy. His story was meant to tell the Jews of those days to beware of taking on foreign ways and what?
Delilah means "One who uprooted or weakened or impoverished". Interesting. Samson was the last of the Judges. He was the leader of Israel. Delilah basically sold out her own people, she sold out her own countryman and lover for money. One may ask why she was with him in the first place. He was in charge, she didn't love him, she wanted what he had to offer. Power is an aphrodisiac to many.
Did Samson know that she didn't love him, probably. He didn't trust her and did not tell her the truth about his strength the first three times. It is possible that she asked him before or just after having sex. It does not say that Samson married Delilah, she was a booty call.
"Things fall apart, the center will not hold". Nations are destroyed from within. When your own people start selling out your country for personal gain, everybody loses. One must expect to have others attempt to take over your country, to destroy your self will and determination. They can rarely do that without help from within.
The United States is not being destroyed by illegal aliens, Iraq, Russia or China. We sold ourselves out. We indebted ourselves to China, they did not force us to buy from them. Our politicians sold us out to international banking and globalization. We turned on each other and took loans with no intention of paying them back, we have become a nation of corruption. We no longer keep our promises, we attempt to have others meet them for us.
If you live in a nation where everyone is out for themselves, it is simply a matter of time before you are destroyed. Strength is in sharing, in our relationship with one another as brethren, as being Americans. Our identification with each other as being in the same boat.
I might be a little under the weather; but, I hope some of my readers found this interesting. I did not know what I was going to write, I had asked a couple of people for some ideas. Then, I just started writing. After all the research and writing about the pension stuff I did not want to write anything really heavy, my research side needed a break.
It used to be that everyone who was a scholar knew the bible. It was a common language because of it's stories. They were so well known that they could be used to illustrate a point. One does not have to be Christian or Jewish to enjoy reading the bible. It is still a book and one that has been fairly popular over the years. It is very readable. I highly recommend to everyone to read it at least once all the way through.
When we read any book we should read it with an attempt to understand more than just the story. Every writer has a purpose beyond reciting what occurred. My youngest daughter writes very well, she is very good at saying something in such a way that other people can relate to the emotion she is attempting to bring out in the writer. That is not my strength, I believe I am good at making things accessible, taking terms of art and intricate thoughts and explaining them to non-experts.
This blog is clearly not for everyone. Most people could care less about the things I discuss. Quantum physics, public pensions, the bible and relationships. Having said that, I do try and make these subjects as amusing as I can. I thank my readers for being there. It gives me a reason to keep writing and I like writing. Thank you.
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